6 things I learned on a date with a millionaire

I’m not new to the dating scene, I’ve been on various dates with medical students, musicians and other professions. So when I was approached by a young entrepreneur, I didn’t think anything of it…that was until I did my research.  After meeting him one Friday afternoon, I got thinking about what I learned about not only him, but the power of millionaires.

1. Honesty is the best policy
One thing that I picked up straight away from Mr Millionaire is that he appreciated my honesty. This was no problem for me as I don’t tend to beat around the bush. What I learnt was that he had been lied to in his career before, and therefore likes to surround himself with honest people, in the office and out.

2. They watch what they say
This most likely depends on the industry you’re in, but if you know the same people, where in this instance we did, he watched what he said to me about his company and the full background to his success. This is understandable as he probably didn’t want me to report back to our mutual contacts about how he has become a millionaire and what he has lined up in the future.

3. They like to be around other successful people
After asking, I learnt that Mr Millionaire tends to spend his time with other successful people and he doesn’t like being around those who have no aspirations and goals in life. It’s true what they say in that rich people mix with other rich people as it actually helps them become more of a success.

4. They’re good at networking…and charming
I soon found that Mr Millionaire uses his charm a lot, from cracking jokes with the waiter to paying the bill. I asked him if he goes to many networking events and when he told me that he spends a lot of time at them, I soon put the two together. By networking with successful people, Mr Millionaire had perfected the art of approaching people and then subtly managing the direction the conversation took.

5. They don’t brag, unless encouraged
To be fair to Mr Millionaire, he didn’t bring up money or his belongings until I asked him too, and even then he was fairly reserved. After I encouraged him to tell me, he eventually told me what cars he owned and other flashy things he enjoys purchasing. So millionaires definitely aren’t always the bragging types. But let’s just say, he loves his cars.

6. They inspire you and make you feel worthy
This is what surprised me the most. I was keen to get to know him, but he was equally as eager to ask about my dreams and aspirations and how I plan on getting there. He didn’t give me all of his tips, but he gave me some advice on business and told me about some of his experiences. By him taking a keen interest in me, I felt worthwhile and came away feeling inspired to succeed…and open to a second date!